Your representational system is
primarily DIGITAL
What this means for effective communication
Each person has a preferred method of receiving and storing
information and we call this their "representational
system". For example: the room temperature of 72 degrees
Fahrenheit is the same physical temperature as about 21 degrees
Celsius. It is the same information, just represented in a
different way.
People have different systems for absorbing and storing
information... it's the same information, just stored a
different way. Adapting the way that you give the information
to the way the other person prefers to receive it, will
instantly make you a more
effective communicator.
Digital people tend to absorb information from the
world around them using primarily the words and sounds
that they hear and supplement it with visuals. They
tend to store the information primarily as facts.
Digital people use visuals, sounds,
and feelings when necessary because you can't absorb
information through logic. Note that your representational
system is not always the same in every situation, but we
each have an overall preferred method. The results of the
survey indicate that yours is primarily
Digital.
Some of the common characteristics of
a digital person
Of course these aren't absolutes, but they are tendencies
for digital people.
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Logic plays a key role in the decision process as
do facts and figures. |
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Sometimes you talk to yourself. You might even
remember discussing something with another person,
but you didn't really have the conversation. |
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Memorize by steps, procedures, sequences. |
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You want to know that things make sense. |
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Have a need to make sense of the world, to figure
things out, to understand |
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Learn by working things out in your mind. |
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Tend not to be spontaneous, as you like to think
things through. |
Sample words
People tend to use and prefer words and phrases that match
their representational system. Some examples for digital
people are:
- Notice
- Regard
- Study
- Perceive
- Experience
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- Decide
- Know
- Understand
- Consider
- Ponder
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- Reflect
- Explore
- Examine
- Enlighten
- Motivate
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Sample phrases
- Have a hunch
- Sensitive to
- Think of it as
- Get a load of
- Know-how
- Gut reaction
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- Be aware of
- Take in
- Come alive
- Give birth to
- Know-how
- In the know
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- Decide for yourself
- Keep your shirt on
- Full of possibilities
- Get the drift of
- Know-nothing
- Think about it
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How you can tell if someone is digital
When you interact with other people, it's not possible to
give them the survey to find our what their representational
system is, so you will have to use your powers of observation
and do a little detective work. Here are some clues that you
can look for:
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They will tend to use digital words and
phrases like the ones above. |
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They tend to talk about facts instead of pictures,
words, or feelings. |
How you can use this
The first rule of
Maximum Communication is that the result of the
communication is the responsibility of the communicator.
Knowing your system and the system of the other person or
persons will allow you to convey your information in a way they
will be able to understand by adapting your speaking, writing,
or presentation to match their representational system.
Remember... it's your responsibility to change to match them if
you want to be effective.
One of the ways that this can be done is simply
to match the words they use. If they say "what do you
think?", don't say "sounds good to me", say "makes sense". You
can increase their understanding simply by matching their
words. But, that's just the beginning!
Learn more
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