Your representational system is
primarily AUDITORY
What this means for effective communication
Each person has a preferred method of receiving and storing
information and we call this their "representational
system". For example: the room temperature of 72 degrees
Fahrenheit is the same physical temperature as about 21 degrees
Celsius. It is the same information, just represented in a
different way.
People have different systems for absorbing and storing
information... it's the same information, just stored a
different way. Adapting the way that you give the information
to the way the other person prefers to receive it, will
instantly make you a more
effective communicator.
Auditory people tend to absorb information from the
world around them using primarily the words and sounds
that they hear. They tend to store the information
primarily as sounds.
Of course auditory people also use visuals, feelings,
and logic when necessary, so your representational
system is not always the same in every situation, but we
each have an overall preferred method. The results of the
survey indicate that yours is primarily
Auditory.
Some of the common characteristics of an auditory
person
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Easily distracted by noise. |
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Can repeat things back easily. |
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Able to remember directions or instructions more
easily. |
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Learns by listening and asking questions. |
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Likes music and talking on the phone. |
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Tends to be more aware of subtle change in voice
tones and more responsive to certain tones of
voice. |
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Enjoys discussions and prefers to communicate
through spoken language rather than the written
word. |
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Prefers phone conversations over e-mail. |
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Needs to talk through problems and likes to have
someone available to serve as a sounding board for
ideas. |
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Needs to be heard more than seen |
Sample words
People tend to use and prefer words and phrases that match
their representational system. Some examples for auditory
people are:
- Listen
- Hear
- Attune
- Soft-spoken
- Echo
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- Speak
- Silence
- Announce
- Voice
- Question
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- Animated
- Tune in
- Tune out
- Sing-song
- Bellow
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Sample phrases
- Chime in
- Be quiet
- Tone down
- Hold your tongue
- Speak up
- Silver-tongued
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- Loud and clear
- Unheard of
- Pay attention to
- Purrs like a kitten
- Quiet as a mouse
- Sound an alarm
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- Be all ears
- Listen up
- To tell the truth
- Word for word
- Clear as a bell
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How you can tell if someone is auditory
When you interact with other people, it's not possible to
give them the survey to find our what their representational
system is, so you will have to use your powers of observation
and do a little detective work. Here are some clues that you
can look for:
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They will tend to use auditory words and
phrases like the ones above. |
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They will tend to turn their ear toward you
when talking to you. This is so that they
can hear you better. |
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They tend to talk at a medium pace
and vary their voice tones and volume
more than most people. |
How you can use this
The first rule of
Maximum Communication is that the result of the
communication is the responsibility of the communicator.
Knowing your system and the system of the other person or
persons will allow you to convey your information in a way they
will be able to understand by adapting your speaking, writing,
or presentation to match their representational system.
Remember... it's your responsibility to change to match them if
you want to be effective.
One of the ways that this can be done is simply
to match the words they use. If they say "talk you
later", don't say "see to you later", say "talk you later". You
can increase their understanding simply by matching their
words. But, that's just the beginning!
Learn more
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